Live at the Orpheum Theater
In excerpts from a live appearance in Vancouver, @fakedansavage addresses gay male virgins, Japanese bondage marks and more. His co-anchor is Esther Perel, author of "The State of Affairs: Rethinking...
View ArticlePublic players
When is it okay to use humiliating a third person as a turn-on? When is it abuse to urge someone into your kink? Savage Love takes a closer look.
View ArticleDevastation
Dan Savage dissects when staying in a sexless relationship is more destructive than ending it. He also takes a look at the perils of co-worker involvement, when said person may or may not be in an open...
View ArticleSavage Love, what happened?
A grumpy reader questions how grumpy Dan has been getting, and Dan explains why he’s grumpy by citing two more letters...this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleNeurodiverse
Dan gets advice for a straight woman with autism who needs help with social cues. In wedding etiquette, what do you do when the best man’s in a poly relationship? And a woman subway perv wants to know...
View ArticleLoving lesbians
Sporty Italian dude keeps falling in love with lesbians — or does he? Dan Savage gives the binary a good going-over this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleQuickies
Unicorn needs to man up, D/s pal needs to stop abusive kidding around, and more this week in sexual etiquette from Dan Savage.
View ArticleRunners
This week in Savage Love, Dan addresses a divorced and re-partnered but as-yet-not-remarried woman who’s playing with fire with her ex. Also on tap: a BDSM woman in a relationship with a loser top and...
View ArticleFather figures
Daddy issues? Dan offers a primer for the older gay man wonder if he is a creep or conversely a fool. Plus some other problematic scenarios, this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleBloody business
This week in Savage Love, dungeon dilemmas, old guys looking for love, and a marriage fetish problem that comes back to the meaning of wedding vows.
View ArticleMother love
This week in Savage Love, Dan consults two professionals to help a man who doesn’t realize the extent to which he was abused by his mother, and advises a guy whose gaydar may be on the fritz.
View ArticleLesborama
A femme lesbian is confused by a pal at work. An older lesbian wonders if there’s anyone out there for her. Dan throws caution to the wind with this all-lesbian edition of Savage Love.
View ArticleShowing up
You can’t win the lottery unless you buy a ticket, and you can’t get into the BDSM bottoming and leather scene unless you show up. That, plus, hairy guys, bi-curiosity and spanking, this week in Savage...
View ArticleFighting words
When a person identifying as nonbinary has a live-in girlfriend and another girlfriend and also wants a long-term relationship, but not sister wives, Dan has a tricky situation to unravel.
View ArticleBi & biphobia
What if your bi- boyfriend is actually gay? Well maybe don’t worry about it too much….but his undersized testicles could be a medical problem. This week in Savage Love, Dan recommends the medical...
View ArticleQuickies
Some quick q & a’s this week in Savage Love. Bottom line: keep Dad out of your Instagram account.
View ArticleZaps
We all have different porn preferences, and that’s okay. So long as we seek out other consenting adults who respect us and our bodies, we can have our kinks and our self-acceptance and self-esteem, too.
View ArticleAce and the Hole
Gray asexuality, sexually active a sexuals and a whole spectrum of not needing sex, plus what “I’m married” might mean in certain situations, this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleCock locked
The ins and outs of male chastity devices are Dan’s main topic, with forays into dealing with moving in with an otherwise homeless girlfriend. And some spanking troubles, all in this week’s Savage Love.
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