The liked boys
At first I just thought my friend’s dad might be into dudes. Now I’m afraid he might be a pedophile.
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In what other column can the topic of discussion swerve from “hotwifing” to plate tectonics in 500 words? We know of none other than Savage Love.
View ArticleBest wishes
Bad and wrong. You know you shouldn’t, but you want to anyway. You wish it were true, but you know it’s not. Dan lays down the hard truth this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleDisclosed
Combating the herpes stigma is complex but sometimes necessary. Soul-searching is on the table this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleHard Feelings
This thing I have with my best friend is not sustainable as it is, although I love her deeply.
View ArticleSeattle & Denver
Terrible weddings, sex with friends, fetish parties — Dan answers the letters he didn’t get to during recent live appearances.
View ArticleBaby soft
Dating, when your fetish is diapers. Dating a long-distance asshole, and whether one should listen to one’s mother’s advice on the topic, when there are Daddy issues.
View ArticleShop around
It’s a post-SESTA/FOSTA world. How does one find a reliable sex worker? Plus info on a used gym shoe query, and just who can deservedly shop at Mr. S Leather.
View ArticleWhy not me?
When you’ve reached a sexual impasse, it’s time to re-assess. Little play can present big quandaries. And there is a way to keep things shiny and new in a relationship. All is revealed, this week in...
View ArticleTie points
Introverted, shy gay kinkster can’t seem to find his tribe. Dan Savage has some commonsense advice.
View ArticlePrejudicial statements
Consider racial attitudes carefully when it comes to sexual stereotypes. And when it comes to a big-city-neighbor-open-windowshade flirtation, well, you never know until you ask.
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Some dilemmas can be solved rather quickly, actually. Dan Savage deals with exes who are besties, boner pills and more this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleDeep cucks
Why cuckolding? Who knows what turns us on. This week in Savage Love, Dan talks with David Ley, a clinical psychologist, author, and sex researcher.
View ArticleFingering it out
In a relationship only somewhat kinky, what if the Dom wants a little partnered prostate play? That and more this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleHard truths
Can a marriage survive when one partner wants BDSM and the other doesn’t> Dan Savage talks with Wednesday Martin
View ArticleBoundaries
Certain things are forgiveable in a newish relationship. This isn’t one of them. Dan talks transgressions this week in Savage Love.
View ArticleShrinkage
Does penis length diminish with age? Do guy orgasms get more intense as guys get older? These concerns and more this week in Savage Love.
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Bukakke, unicorns, jizz and all that jazz, in this week’s “quickies” edition of Savage Love.
View ArticleCome the revolution
Pleasure comes from taking control of what you need and when you need it. This week in Savage Love, Dan tackles the problem of selfish lovers and the psychology behind some kinks.
View ArticlePhysical ideal
You’re “pretty average,” you don’t fit your S.O.’s “ideal type,” he doesn’t want to have sex, and he follows a lot of “suicide girls” on Instagram. What’s up?
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